The Bro Culture Must Be Broken; This Isn’t Just About Hockey—It’s About Humanity
The recent news surrounding Hockey Canada has once again thrust the issues of misconduct, misogyny, and the culture ingrained in male sports into the spotlight. This post is not about who did what, the specifics of this case, or the legal outcome. It’s my perspective as a mother of both a son and a daughter, and the broader lessons we need to teach our children—especially our sons—about respect, morality, and human decency.
Society must do better in addressing misogyny and "bro culture," particularly within environments where alcohol, drugs, and peer pressure can cloud judgment. It is morally and ethically wrong for a room filled with men drinking to include a woman who is naked and also drinking. Such situations are not just about legality—they are about dignity, empathy and respect for others.
As parents, we need to instill in our sons that if they find themselves in such situations, they have a moral obligation to stand up. Being a man means protecting others, especially women, and acting when they see wrongdoings. Human decency should guide us all, regardless of the circumstances.
At the same time, we must empower our daughters and women to trust their instincts and recognize how quickly a situation can escalate. Teaching them to call a friend or seek help is crucial in today’s world. Prevention starts with awareness and education, both at home and in formal institutions.
This brings me to the actions, or lack thereof, from Hockey Canada. Their response has been shameful. Covering up or downplaying misconduct only perpetuates a dangerous culture. It’s high time that organizations—whether in sports, workplaces, or schools—implement comprehensive training on how to treat women, emphasizing respect, equality, and the legal and moral boundaries of behavior.
If we are committed to creating inclusive environments, the conversation must extend beyond diversity to actively promote equality and respect for women. Women constitute approximately half of our population, and if we cannot get this fundamental right, how can we expect to support and foster equality for other marginalized groups?
In conclusion, the behavior demonstrated by these men was wrong. Society must send a clear message: Respect and dignity are non-negotiable. It is time for change—change that begins with education, accountability, and a collective commitment to human decency.